No Victors
Wayne and Tamara
Direct Answers - Column for the week of September 6, 2004
Last Friday night I was caught with another woman by my girlfriend. When my longtime girlfriend came to my house, I told her I was going to bed early. She suspected something and came back to f...
A Plausible Defense
Wayne and Tamara
Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 5, 2002
I just looked at your website and read "Wanting To Be Caught," and I truly think that is awful advice! You said and I quote, "You can't act as if you had no wish to end the marriage when you undert...
Moving On to Much Better Things After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
Terry Hernon MacDonald
Leaving an abusive relationship is difficult, but being alone can feel worse. All your happily married friends are still happily married, and here you are suddenly single. It’s a huge adjustment. Even though you’ve triumphed by getting out of a b...
Q&A on Marriage problems - Our Sex Life is Horrible
Wayne and Tamara
Question 1 : Our Sex Life is HorribleI am a woman, 42, who three years ago married a wonderful man who will be 48 on his next birthday. I love him very, very much. The only problem is our sex life is horrible. Pretty much nonexistent. I can safely say...
Are You Interested In Feng Shui?
Kevin Lloyd
In the 1980s, many people's lives were filled with things-cars, home, vacations, stressful jobs. Then in the 1990s, something wonderful happened to many of those same people. By middle of the decade, the insatiable desire for more and more stuff began to su...